Grandparent Visitation Rights in Massachusetts
Understanding the process, requirements, and legal standards for grandparents seeking visitation.

Questions about grandparent visitation rights in Massachusetts are common, especially for grandparents who want to maintain a relationship with their grandchildren.
Do I have an automatic right to see my grandchild?
Unfortunately, in Massachusetts, grandparents are not automatically granted visitation rights with their grandchildren. Furthermore, a parent’s decision regarding grandparent visitation must be given “presumptive validity.” This means that the court is likely to defer to a parent whether or not to allow grandparent visitation. However, if you don’t have a cooperative relationship with your former son-in-law or daughter-in-law, there is a legal process you can follow to request visitation through the family court by filing a Petition for Grandparent Visitation.
Under what circumstances can grandparent visitation be ordered?
First, if you are a paternal grandparent, your son must be legally recognized as the child’s father. This means his name must appear on the birth certificate even if his paternity is unquestioned. Second, if the child’s parents still live together, you cannot file for visitation. The law requires that they live in separate households, and your petition must include both parents as parties. Most successful grandparent visitation cases involve circumstances in which one of the parents of the child are either deceased or unfit to care for a child in some way due to substance abuse, incarceration, or untreated mental health conditions. Therefore, grandparents are unable to visit with a grandchild due to the parent’s own lack of contact with the child.
What standard do grandparents need to be granted visitation?
In Massachusetts, grandparents must demonstrate that denying visitation would cause significant harm to the child. This is a high legal standard, and courts typically require proof of a meaningful, preexisting relationship. For example, if your grandchild previously lived with you for a period of time or had consistent contact over an extended period of time which abruptly stopped, you may have a compelling case. If not, establishing visitation rights can be much more challenging.
What kind of contact schedule can grandparents expect with their grandkids if their petition is successful?
The outcome depends on several factors. This could include your existing relationship with your grandchild, the child’s best interests, and —depending on age — their own wishes. If your grandchild lived with you in the past, you may have a stronger case for more frequent visitation. Ultimately, the judge will decide on details such as how often visits occur, whether they include holidays, and the length of each visit on a case-by-case basis.
Where can I find more information?
You can find detailed filing instructions on Mass.gov, including the initial steps, required documents, and forms. If you’d like more personalized guidance, you can also book a consultation with us. We can review your specific situation and, through our tiered services, assist you in preparing and filing your petition.
We STRONGLY recommend trying to negotiate an arrangement with your grandchild’s parent before filing in court. However, if all else fails, we hope that this was a helpful blog to understand the realities and next steps you can take.
